It's been said that there are reason things happen. The definitive reason isn't always obvious, but if you search enough, you'll find it.
I have to first remind myself that I can't change anyone. I am only responsible for myself. I can only control myself. I can't make anyone feel a certain way. You must take responsibility for your own feelings. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you can enjoy the rewards of life.
You don't have to always be a people pleaser. At some point in time your mental and physical well being are definitely more important. I can't hurt your feelings, you hurt your own feelings. I can't make you cry, you allow yourself to cry. Do see where this isn't about me at all? Blame is constantly wanting to be placed somewhere. Yet at no time does one want to place any blame on themselves.
Accept responsibility, release the anger and move on.
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