January 28, 2011

TGIF!!!

This week has been rather long. A funeral today and then repeat the process again next week. Death in itself is completely complicated.

How was your week? Anything fun happen? Where was I at.... Yes.. Ms. Ex moved to the opposite side of town, still traveling with the 15 hour a way boyfriend and still meeting up with new men and introducing them to the kids... Sigh....

Can I just add here that I know that I have faults. I, by no means claim that I am "super mom" as Ms. Ex refers to me. Before 2010 concluded Ms. Ex told hub she wanted to go back to shared custody. Hub told her no and we haven't heard anything since then. My suspicious self thinks there is something brewing in the pot!

I forgot to mention the latest tidbit that I have been informed about. Apparently, in the world of Facebook Ms. Ex has created a problem for herself. It has probably been about month since I heard this, but it's worth sharing. Who knows if she will ever find my blog to read. Not quite worried about it. Certainly if you are in my circle of the world and know what is going on in my life you will know exactly who I am on this blog. I'm not afraid to admit who I am .... just cautious as Ms. Ex is terribly frightening. (Let's clarify in that I AM NOT AFRAID OF MS. EX) I, unlike herself have more respect for my family then throwing them under the bus with names. Back to the Facebook issue. I wish that I could take credit for what I am about to say, but I can't.... (secretly though I think if Ms. Ex asked if I did what I'm about to say, I would contemplate taking full credit) I give two thumbs up to whomever did it. To you.. I say THANK YOU!

Ms. Ex and I aren't friends on Facebook. We used to be, but after confronting her with the pornographic photos sent to my brother and telling her she was not welcome in my home any longer well.... she de-friend me! Shocker! At any rate, apparently Ms. Ex put some "nude" photos on her Facebook page and someone called her employer and told them about it. After all this is said and done I am the one getting blamed for calling her employer! HA! (Can I take credit??? I Soooooo want to) I wish I could, truly. I find it disturbing that Ms. Ex is more concerned that I called rather than, uh, I don't know, maybe they shouldn't have been posted at all? About a week ago a friend of mine actually gave me a copy of the photos!

I was shocked to see that they were the same photos that were sent to my brother. Seriously? What the heck is she thinking? I think she forgot that the two of us still have a couple mutual friends .... thank you friend for the information. But still to this day, I am the person responsible for whatever happened to her. I also forgot to mention that I am one of the cheerleaders wanting her to have a job! Of course her part time job that she has right now isn't a job, but at least it's something! I would rather her have something than nothing! And for the more hard core, blunt, really don't care if I hurt feelings point of view... I'm already married to hub, we have full custody of the kids ... what more could I possibly want? Well... I tell ya, there is something that I want ... I want her to quit being so damn frigid and be a freaking mom! Not a friend to her kids, but a MOM! You want to talk private things, intimate things with your kids? Fine! Can you at least not traumatize their childhood and wait until they are adults to better assess the situation?

Alright, Alright.. It's Friday.. I'm a step mom and I'm happy as a clam!